• Pyr@lemmy.ca
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    5 hours ago

    Zero

    Just don’t have the drive. Perfectly happy with not bothering with the social dynamics required to flirt / commit etc. I don’t have much need to have a partner either short term or long term.

    No idea if I’m just weird or if it’s a somewhat common thing for some people.

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    These answers are wild, didn’t know lemmings were such dirty dogs (in a good way <3)

    Being the awkward socially disabled neuromasala dude that I am, I count myself lucky to have even met my wife and had the guts to say “hello” when we finally met face to face after 5 months of texting. I absolutely can’t fathom hooking up with someone I barely know, and here y’all are going “oh I lost count”, “low 3 digits”, “are we counting orgies…?”

    • YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today
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      Yeah, I started to count and just got kinda sad. Remembering the mistakes they were, or that I made. I don’t really care all that much anyways.

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    16 hours ago

    Maybe a hundred by now, lost count. My wife has hundreds more than me, and we keep increasing our numbers together, so to speak. God I love my wife and I love my life.

    Wife an I love to regularly go to sex clubs, we have regular partners we play with a lot, and we both give eachother the freedom that if we have an opportunity to have sex while the other isn’t there, take it. We both simply love sex and we’re super open and honest and respectful about our wants, needs, and desires

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    17 hours ago
    1. But it feels really weird that someone I slept with hundreds of times, often in sessions of 40 minutes to two hours would count the same towards that number as someone who I slept with once for 15 minutes.

    Of the 12, 4 were a single time, 1 was a few times and the rest were over a year of sleeping together, usually 2 or 3.

    For what it’s worth the sex was only physically pleasurable in the long term deals for me.

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    19 hours ago

    So far, I have only had one sexual partner. Thank you for asking, SatansMaggotyCumFart.

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    20 hours ago

    Lost count but I’m confident it’s somewhere between zero and 23423431.

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    17 hours ago

    I realized the other day that I don’t have a solid count. A friend of mine revealed they have a document with a line item for everyone they’ve slept with and a brief summary.

    I’d guess it could reasonably round to 100, though.

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      16 hours ago

      I don’t mind anyone sleeping with a hundred people, or more even. Don’t mind the diary either, just that to me that sounds like too much work that nobody would ever read, but to each their own

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    23 hours ago

    More than 20. I disagree that it makes it less meaningful. But I have learned that there are many women who are bad at sex. It’s not just men.

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      Agreed. The worst once are those who think sex is a thing only men want and swear they have no need at all and don’t know what they want or like.

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        My absolute pet peeve is women who don’t know how to get themselves off. I’m willing to put in the work, but if she doesn’t even know what works for her, then it’s never going to work.

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        I got one, my second to last partner. I blame “squirting” becoming a thing. She would push so hard to pee to make it seem like she was squirting that she would push me out every minute or so.