• unitedwithme@lemmy.today
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        1 day ago

        Nice! I’m 6’ myself, and a girl caught me by surprise one time after we meet up early on in the Tinder days (when it was more innocent). Anyway, she was 6’ AND had 2-3" heels on too! It’s not often a girl is taller than me, but it was so attractive, she was so shy or self conscious about it. I reassured her I knew she said she was tall and had nothing to worry about!

        Dinner was great, she was great, but she didn’t like being taller than me (that night at least). Nothing more came of it, but I could tell she was slightly uncomfortable about the whole thing, and I paid her honest compliments to try to put her at ease.

        Last we talked, she dated a guy 6’4. Oh well, hope she’s doing alright these days.

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          21 hours ago

          Long before Tinder I matched / went on a date with a heavier woman who had obvious issues with her size. Not sure what she was trying to do, but apparently f a t was her trigger word, she instantly dissolved in a pool of irreconcilable tears. I made it clear I had no problem with the size, found her attractive as she was - even before saying the trigger word, but the fragility and deep lack of self esteem was more than I could handle.

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            19 hours ago

            Yeah I feel like you need to be confident in yourself before you start dating. You can’t make your happiness dependent on someone else. It’s not fair on them and it’s dangerous for you.