Yes very true. Body language is super important in conversations like this.
For me what felt strange is that, I am a propnent of sharing household responsibilities between men and women equally. So basically equality despite difference in capability. But then, when it comes to society in general, I don’t believe in equal responsibility ie rich and privilegded ppl should have more responsibility than underprivileged. And this makes me feel like a hypocrite you know?
On one example, I am thinking of equality and the other proportionality.
I guess my idealogy is still incomplete.









I feel bad for making you frustrated. It wasn’t my intention. I think these text based format just makes things weird for us. You sound like someone I could have had a nice conversation on this topic without frustrations if we were discussing IRL.
For what its worth, my original intent was to discuss different approaches to distribution of labour rather than talking about hunter gatherer society. I have weird way of talking where i can’t help but justify my reasoning, so hunters gatherer was the justification for different physiology. And different physiology was the setup for the discussion on distribution of labour.
What I found strange about myself is that I (and so many others including you) believe in equal distribution of labour in household despite having different physiology. But I support proportional distribution of labour when it comes broader society ie rich and priviledge should contribute more than poor and underpriviledged.
And I kinda find this strange about myself (also generally) that we have different views when looking at society versus household.
If i make a claim that we can’t know actual capability between a couple therefore equal distribution of labour is fair then a similar argument can be made about rich vs poor.
Anyways, I have a bad habit of making everything too political, this is a meme community so maybe i need to dial down that political side of me.