Just throwing another alternative out there which I’ve been very happy with: lissen - ‘Clean audiobookshelf player’.

Has streaming/downloading for offline listening, sleep timer, custom bookmarks and custom speeds. Just the browsing functionality is at best ‘functional’ (nice search but if you don’t know what to listen to next just gives you one long list sorted by title)

Very cool, hope it’s gonna be a nice movie night! Enjoy the headache that is trying to unravel absolutely anything in Primer ;)

I read the farseer trilogy last year and… man it’s a tough read. Not because of the writing - I was blown away by the prose, it is incredibly evocative - but just because they’re so relentlessly harsh.

Still taking some time off before any further Hobb books for that reason alone.

aerc is a very nice, a little less fiddly modern alternative for me nowadays

I may be misunderstanding your argument but just to make sure I want to point out that

desperate people will do desperate things to survive

does not run counter to

if you can’t afford to live, then you certainly can’t afford to move to another country

I am one of those happy taskwarrior users. For more advanced recurrence syntax in taskwarrior there’s also the relatively new nautical extension. It essentially splits recurrence into things that recur based on calendar/clock events (e.g. every first workday of the month, every second Sunday, etc.) or based on previous completions (e.g. do something 3 days after last time, or every x hours after last doing it).

It’s pretty neat and functional but, fair warning, also early on in development and changing quite radically through its versions still.

My partner tends to do the same and I am not sure how to start this discussion. We recently had a fight about our respective ways of interacting during arguments just before they get heated and talked about it afterwards, coming to a (what I thought) somewhat satisfying conclusion on the areas we could each work on. Fast-forward about a week and by now I have overheard her tell this ‘story’ of our fight to about 5 different friends and family members on the phone, over the various days.

Like I said, I’m just not sure how to handle it - I don’t want to cut off her communication with friends. I realize sometimes you need to bounce off an idea you’re mulling over with a close friend. But I also feel there are certain private affairs I just don’t wanted chatted about to all our extended friend circle, and this is a pattern that’s repeated itself often enough now for me to recognize.