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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • People with rich parents own homes…

    Wait, I own a home, and my parents aren’t rich…

    Well…I didn’t think so when I was growing up, and my parents divorced when I was in high school, so that colored my perceptions a bit…

    OTOH…my dad went on a 10-month “world cruise” two years ago, and my mom is wealthy enough to snowbird. Still, my childhood was “a normal-seeming house in Small Town USA, going to public school”. Hardly gold-plated.

    Because their parents gave them the down payment

    I bought my first house at age 28, no direct help from my parents (in before “but check your privileged upbringing!”). I won’t whine about how I don’t have enough money, though. I budget and save pretty aggressively.

    coastal USA

    Yeah, that’s fair. I’m firmly in MCOL flyover country. Completely different world for housing than the bay area or NYC.