

Here is eurosky: https://portal.eurosky.tech/
Here is blacksky: https://blacksky.app/
Here is bookhive (a lot smaller): https://bookhive.social/
I found all of them by looking through the PDS index: https://atproto.at/pdses and selecting ones with enough users to signify open registration.
Here is a guide to self-hosting: https://atproto.com/guides/self-hosting#pds
All of these are links to PDS servers. These are the servers that contain all of your data. You can log into any ATProto apps using these accounts.
Fluxer is open sourced under AGPL: https://github.com/fluxerapp/fluxer/blob/main/LICENSE
It is completely self-hostable: https://docs.fluxer.app/operator/get-started/
It is currently starting development on federation: https://fluxer.app/blog/mobile-clients-and-fluxer-v2#why-is-federation-taking-so-long
It is absolutely not just Discord 2. And while they do have a very aggressive monetization scheme (can’t set a banner with the free account) that’s just to cover the development and hosting costs and it should be easy to disable them as the app is open-source.