• velma@sh.itjust.works
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      2 months ago

      Yeah, I think most alternative aesthetic decisions tend to be signifiers of queerness to others. Subtle ways that we tell others that we’re accepting.

      If that turns away straight cis men…oh well.

    • Don't forget to stay hydrated.🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉@sh.itjust.works
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      2 months ago

      Depends on why they don’t like it.

      I just don’t like piercings in general, because, well, it pierces skin. It’s like needles, which I too dislike, except this is permanent/long term.
      Imagine a piercing in sensitive area getting stuck on a thread sticking out of clothes. Yikes.

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            2 months ago

            I was replying to this.

            Imagine a piercing in sensitive area getting stuck on a thread sticking out of clothes. Yikes.

            Some women love that feeling of the piercings on their body. Not the getting snagged part, but how it might feel rubbing against their shirt or pants. That’s why they get those piercings. If you don’t like that feeling, don’t get one.

            Pretty simple to just… not get one instead of casually insulting people who do.