I’d teach a class on the stupid games women play in relationships and how they destroy relationships. I’d bring in women who played those games and what they lost. I’d use their social media profiles to show what they were posting and how it just creates problems. Then bring in women who didn’t play those games and show their results. I’d bring in intimacy experts like “The libido fairy “ from YouTube to help students understand how to have better relationships.
Actually that might have to be two different classes.
I’d say it’s a troll account with that username, but looking at the profile I think he’s just a proud Andrew Tate fan. Loose in the wilds of Lemmy. Odd.
andrew ta … t.a. = teachers assistant or total asshole depending on the day.
sometimes i feel like being an asshole to people other days i’ll teach people.
so let’s think about this. since my comment was about teaching and helping women figure out how they are tanking their own relationships, which do you think i’m doing ? being an ass or helping and teaching?
now here’s a question for you. just because i want to teach women on this subject does that automatically mean that men don’t also create problems? does it mean that the two are mutually exclusive? no it does not.
women tank their own relationships in some cases and men tank their own relationships in other cases.
sometimes women are toxic as hell. doubt me? try looking at youtube and instagram sometimes and watch the crap that women put on there. try talking to married men sometime and listen to the toxic crap that their wives put them through.
now does that mean that men are absolutely always innocent in all cases? that would be insane to argue . and yet… i simply say hey i want to help women realize that these toxic acts are not a good idea and your response is to say i must love andrew tate… in essense saying that women are never guilty of toxic behavior.
here’s another question : since i want to teach the one subject does that mean you absolutely can not teach men about their toxic crap and how it affect relationships? why do the two have to be mutually exclusive?
i even mention a youtuber that talks to men and women to help in figuring out libido and intimacy . to try to help show that this i am coming from a place of wanting to help and yet you go with i must love andrew tate. i can only conclude that your opinion is that women are never the problem…
by the way i don’t actually think that you think that women are always innocent but do you see how insane that line of thinking is?
andrew ta … t.a. = teachers assistant or total asshole depending on the day.
sometimes i feel like being an asshole to people other days i’ll teach people.
I want to say this with the greatest possible compassion - this is serious neckbeard energy. Like, your whole series of posts is.
Your logical points aren’t any real defence. You can logic all you want - but the medium is the message. Your choice of subject matter, how you choose to define it, and how you choose to talk about it, clearly displays a lot of bitterness towards women. I expect you’ll want to argue that I am talking about superficialities and ignoring the more important, deeper, logical points you are making. But this is sort of like showing up to a first date, unwashed and unshaved, wearing a shirt covered in holes and stains. Your presentation isn’t some inconsequential thing that only dumb people focus on - it is the most potent representation of who you a really are. If you show up to a first date without shaving, you are telling your date, in a way words cannot compensate for, that you do not care about them enough to complete simple, normal tasks. And when you talk about “teaching” women in the manner that you have, it is clear that your real goal is not the improvement of these women’s relationships, but for you to be able to criticize them and air your grievances for perceived previous offences you’ve suffered.
I’m not unsympathetic to your state of mind. I think any man who dates women, at some point or another, has had some similar bitterness. It is just human nature to project our frustrations, and think that “they” are the source of all our problems and if only “they” would change everything would be better. But it is also not a state of mind that is really helping you, so I suggest you chill out a little and open your mind to the possibility that you might be wrong.
I’d teach a class on the stupid games women play in relationships and how they destroy relationships. I’d bring in women who played those games and what they lost. I’d use their social media profiles to show what they were posting and how it just creates problems. Then bring in women who didn’t play those games and show their results. I’d bring in intimacy experts like “The libido fairy “ from YouTube to help students understand how to have better relationships.
Actually that might have to be two different classes.
Honestly, you’re teaching the class a lot more about yourself than you are about the subject matter here
What are the odds that part of his class is hitting yourself in the face with a hammer?
So in essence what you are saying is women never play stupid games and never destroy relationships… good to know
Bye
I just noticed the username.
I’d say it’s a troll account with that username, but looking at the profile I think he’s just a proud Andrew Tate fan. Loose in the wilds of Lemmy. Odd.
the andrewta stands for
andrew ta … t.a. = teachers assistant or total asshole depending on the day.
sometimes i feel like being an asshole to people other days i’ll teach people.
so let’s think about this. since my comment was about teaching and helping women figure out how they are tanking their own relationships, which do you think i’m doing ? being an ass or helping and teaching?
now here’s a question for you. just because i want to teach women on this subject does that automatically mean that men don’t also create problems? does it mean that the two are mutually exclusive? no it does not.
women tank their own relationships in some cases and men tank their own relationships in other cases.
sometimes women are toxic as hell. doubt me? try looking at youtube and instagram sometimes and watch the crap that women put on there. try talking to married men sometime and listen to the toxic crap that their wives put them through.
now does that mean that men are absolutely always innocent in all cases? that would be insane to argue . and yet… i simply say hey i want to help women realize that these toxic acts are not a good idea and your response is to say i must love andrew tate… in essense saying that women are never guilty of toxic behavior.
here’s another question : since i want to teach the one subject does that mean you absolutely can not teach men about their toxic crap and how it affect relationships? why do the two have to be mutually exclusive?
i even mention a youtuber that talks to men and women to help in figuring out libido and intimacy . to try to help show that this i am coming from a place of wanting to help and yet you go with i must love andrew tate. i can only conclude that your opinion is that women are never the problem…
by the way i don’t actually think that you think that women are always innocent but do you see how insane that line of thinking is?
@njm1314@lemmy.world just to tag in the other person who commented. and also @blarghly@lemmy.world
it’s amazing how quickly people read and just jump to the wrong conclusion instead of trying to comprehend what is actually being said.
I want to say this with the greatest possible compassion - this is serious neckbeard energy. Like, your whole series of posts is.
Your logical points aren’t any real defence. You can logic all you want - but the medium is the message. Your choice of subject matter, how you choose to define it, and how you choose to talk about it, clearly displays a lot of bitterness towards women. I expect you’ll want to argue that I am talking about superficialities and ignoring the more important, deeper, logical points you are making. But this is sort of like showing up to a first date, unwashed and unshaved, wearing a shirt covered in holes and stains. Your presentation isn’t some inconsequential thing that only dumb people focus on - it is the most potent representation of who you a really are. If you show up to a first date without shaving, you are telling your date, in a way words cannot compensate for, that you do not care about them enough to complete simple, normal tasks. And when you talk about “teaching” women in the manner that you have, it is clear that your real goal is not the improvement of these women’s relationships, but for you to be able to criticize them and air your grievances for perceived previous offences you’ve suffered.
I’m not unsympathetic to your state of mind. I think any man who dates women, at some point or another, has had some similar bitterness. It is just human nature to project our frustrations, and think that “they” are the source of all our problems and if only “they” would change everything would be better. But it is also not a state of mind that is really helping you, so I suggest you chill out a little and open your mind to the possibility that you might be wrong.
Lol, sure it does buddy. Sure it does.