• RunJun@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 months ago

    Anyone who is going through this, you have to try. You have to put effort into yourself and get used to rejection. It’s not fun but if it’s important to you then it’s important to show up.

    I didn’t have my first kiss until 26. I have a wife and two kids. Just so you don’t think it was easy for me.

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      8 months ago

      Can’t.

      I spent my whole life being told to not be a creep, don’t just go up to women they don’t want random men approaching them, they’re at the club for a good time with friends, etc.

      So that only leaves online dating and I’m not a 10/10 so never get a match.

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        8 months ago

        So that only leaves online dating and I’m not a 10/10 so never get a match.

        Bullshit. That’s just toxic internet culture talking. You may have to put some effort in your profile, but it worked for me and I’m a 6 at best.