

I would be up for the challenge of self hosting, I think. I have considered building a home lab for many years, but haven’t been able to save up, nor taken the time to browse the local used market. I just don’t know too much about it, so I figured I’d ask how involved you meant the solution should be.
But you’re right that it’ll be a huge obligation for me. I think my main objection is that, even if I get everything right with self hosting, it would depend on something in my home. If I ever leave the neighbourhood permanently, I wouldn’t want to self host for this group I don’t know or meet with.
My only problem with options like librebit is that I probably couldn’t justify the running cost (vs. free for Google Sheet) to a group that wouldn’t see the value keeping the data off these tech companies’ free servers



You could consider checking an encyclopaedia on the matter. I checked the English Wikipedia page on the matter for you. On the literal 2nd paragraph, they talk about second-generation immigrants.
My point is that you seem too stubborn to accept any use of the word apart from that of a dictionary. But I think we can all agree that language contains more than can fit in a dictionary. Therefore, you should acknowledge uses outside those found in a dictionary, like the use described in most encyclopaedias - I must image - on the matter.
Also I find your comment rude, which is just double annoying when you furthermore seem misinformed on the matter.